sweetcoalminer ([info]sweetcoalminer) wrote,
@ 2009-03-15 03:40:00
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Nicotine poisoning
I would so like to sit here and really write about this past week, but I just can't - emotionally and because I just have so much to do while they're both sleeping.

Frank ate one of my dad's cigarettes - why I cannot begin to fathom, since he is such a food snob - and I had not one iota of an idea how dangerous that is.

After profuse vomiting, we wound up spending the night admitted in the hallway of a pediatric hospital that looked more like what you would see on CNN in the middle east than anything I have ever seen before in a hospital - sick children like you can't imagine, people not speaking the language and desperate to help their children, and vomit all over the floors.

Frank recovered after 12 hours of I.V. fluid, but the doctors were questionable, as there was no tox screen or anything that I would think to expect in the U.S. We were discharged, and then a few hours later, he succumbed to the horrible virus that lots of other hall kids had at the hospital. Profuse vomiting and diarrhea leaving Frank absolutely a shadow of my baby. It's been rocky - we had a trip to another hospital in a rich suburb and have positively assaulted him with rehydrating electolyte disgusting stuff to the point where he's wary of me now - but there's finally a little life in his eyes again.

Mimi is ill-equipped to deal with her jealousy and the lack of attention, as all of my energy has been focused on Frank.

Mimi started throwing up just before Frank had diarrhea in the bathtub last night, and for all we've been through and how rotten the last few days have been between my stepmother and me, I am so grateful for their help. I have lost at least 10 kilos - 4 in the last 2 weeks - and have been quite beside myself.

Mimi's also got a fever, but I am hoping she is strong enough to get through this since she hasn't been eating cigarettes and was not so weak at the outset. I am missing Cory like you can't imagine. Seriously, you cannot imagine. Difficult, difficult days for many, many reasons.

Maybe sometime I will be able to beat this story out on the laptop, but until then, would appreciate your prayers/good wishes for the kids. I can't escape the feeling that I am going to start throwing up shortly myself. I feel a little weak in spirit and body, and could really use a boost from my friends.



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[info]blue_eyed_girl
2009-03-15 11:29 am UTC (link)
Oh my god, Lyss ... I don't even know what to say. What a horrible, terrible, terrifying few days (on top of what already wasn't an ideal situation). I'm so, so sorry that things have been so rough for you guys, and that poor little Frank has been so sick.

I hope that you and Mimi are able to beat this virus without too much trouble and that Frank improves quickly from here on out. And, most important, I hope that the time passes quickly and calmly from now until the time that you and the kids rejoin Cory and get back to your real lives!

Hang in there, babe ...

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[info]kathy_mcc
2009-03-15 01:02 pm UTC (link)
Oh, I feel so terrible for you, Lyss. You've really had quite a ration of crap thrown your way (literally). I wish I could help you out. I will keep you guys in my thoughts and pray that everything gets better very soon. Big (((hugs))) to you all.

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[info]mk0415
2009-03-15 02:10 pm UTC (link)
Oh my god, how awful and scary for all of you! I'm so glad Frank is okay. You have really had a rough go of it, to say the least, and I hope things ease up for you soon.

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[info]chelleg1977
2009-03-15 03:03 pm UTC (link)
(( hugs ))

I'm sorry Lyss. I'm keeping you and yours in my thoughts.

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[info]manda_x
2009-03-15 10:37 pm UTC (link)
Oh my goodness! I am so sorry to hear of all this. I was just at a conference where one of the sessions noted that cigarettes are toxic for kids and pets, but wow, I had no idea the reaction was that severe! I'm just so glad you're all okay, or going to be.

As for that virus -- it cut a swath through our household (and therefore my ex-husband's too). I lost at least two pounds completely. Be warned, if you get it, and in terms of the kids, your appetites won't return for about 10 days, give or take.

Is there any chance this will persuade your Dad to keep his smoking habit outside the house? I can dream for you, anyway.

Feel better soon, everyone!

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[info]grammarwoman
2009-03-16 02:54 am UTC (link)
Oh, man, you guys just keep getting hammered - I'm so sorry!

Lots of *good vibes* aimed your way.

I don't know if it's any consolation or even funny, but when I was a toddler, I used to munch on the contents of my parents' ashtrays. It was one of several factors that got them to quit.


Edited at 2009-03-16 02:55 am UTC

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[info]byrneout
2009-03-16 06:42 pm UTC (link)
Oh, honey. You poor kid -- and your poor kids! I wish this weren't happening to you.

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[info]jennykarp
2009-03-16 11:31 pm UTC (link)
I'm very sorry to hear about Frank. The toddler years seem really dangerous -- mobility without knowledge or common sense. I've seen kids with lost teeth, my daughter cut her finger to the bone -- the age is a parental nightmare. I hope you all pull through this quickly.

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I'm so sorry
[info]cladeedah
2009-03-18 04:43 pm UTC (link)
How terrible. I'm so sorry. Sending you an overseas hug and good wishes for the whole family.

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